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10-26-2009, 01:10 AM
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I hate sundays
I went to visit him again today and I love getting to see him but I hate leaving him. I didnt get one door on my car locked ONE DOOR and they made me leave and go lock the door. He had to be searched and than i had to be searched b4 I could come back in so all in all I lost about 20 minutes of time with him cuz of a stupid lock that i forgot to hit when I took my nephews carseat out of my car b4 I left to go up there. At the end of the visit when i was hugging him goodbye they told us to break it up. I never cry in front of ppl. No matter what but when I go there I always do. Its horrible. I miss him so much I wish he could just come home.
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It doesn't matter what you've done, I still love you It doesn't matter where you've been, you can still come home And honey if it's you, we've got a lot of making up to do And I can't hug you on the phone, so hurry home 
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#2
10-26-2009, 02:00 AM
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That's very ironic because something very similar happened to me today. We live in Indiana and my fiance' is incarcerated here..almost 3 1/2 hours away from where I live, I went to go see him today and had just gone through the search when my friend told me she forgot my money out in the car. I'll be damned if they didn't make me go out to get my money while the guard was watching me, lock every single door on the car then come back in and we both had to get re-searched. I lost about 30 minutes of my visit with him because of that. I don't get contact visits where he's at, I get these stupid video visits..but I always feel horrible leaving him there. The c/o's in the back are nice sometimes, but I've had guards who were just completely rude for no reason at all. I'd like to see how one of them would take it if they were in our position and vice versa...I can't wait for him to get home so we can be done with all this. It just gets harder and harder every day...I hope all works out for you and yours & if you ever need to talk, I'm here.
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10-26-2009, 02:29 AM
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600 miles is to far for me to visit my honey but I hate sundays cause the mail doesn't run. It's the one day of the week excluding holidays that there's not even a chance of a letter from my honey. Sometimes I wonder which is harder. My not being able to see him at all and living letter from letter or being able to see him like you guys do and knowing I have to go home again with out him. Either way it hurts and it's frustrating.
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#4
10-26-2009, 10:29 AM
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I went to go see my hubby yesterday too...we had a bitter sweet visit
 . we argued over some dumb stuff i just hate driving 5 hrs for an argument and that just ruins the visit, but the worst part is being so close to him and not be able to sit next to him and hug him the whole time and kiss him more than just when i get there and when i leave.... i hate it when i have to go home alone without him it tears me apart so i usually cry the whole way home lol... i hate sundays too but at the same time i love them kuz i atleast get to see him.
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#5
10-26-2009, 05:05 PM
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This situation sucks, but at least we have men who truly love us and will always be there for us. Some women never get to experience real love.
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10-26-2009, 06:04 PM
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#7
10-27-2009, 01:46 PM
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awwww.. I have to drive 7 hrs and that's a once a month thing. I usually go and get to see him for two days. The worst part is leaving. I hate sayin goodbye. I always want to take him back home with me. I feel sorry for him for doin time, but then again not only he suffers but so do his love ones suffer. I hate sitting so close and not be able to kiss or hug... it sucks i can't wait for him to be home
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#8
10-28-2009, 05:01 PM
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I understand how you all feel.. i usually drive 2 hours towards him spend the night with my family then drive another hour to see him on a Saturday morning.. its always so hard leaving.. I feel really lucky after reading some of your posts.. I use to complain that they would break us up after hugging for more than a few second or kissing. But he is now at a new unit here in Texas and I have to say WOW these guards are actually human beings with a heart.. I was suppose to be there for my normal 2 hour contact visit which is always great.. but time kept on and on and on!! 6 hours later they said ok gotta go! l couldnt get that grin off my face. I had the most wonderful visit in such a long time. we got really deep with our emotions and just laughed and smiled all 6 hours! It may have been they were so unorganized or God blessing.. either way I was having such a hard time prior to that visit. I was going through alot and needed him and POOF it was there. Regardless of the amount of time or type of visits we get with our men its always hard.. its not good bye.. its i'll see you later.. Keep positive.. i know it takes everything in my power to stay that way but with you all its getting alot easier.. thanks!
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11-18-2009, 12:03 PM
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