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Originally Posted by hisangel
Well hello there I do not know how much exsperience you have with Lansing but I have been going there vone to two times a week for the last 5 years & they are really tight there I mean there always seems to be an issue for one of the gaurds about something or another during visits no matter what they stir trouble for us for some reason it seems like , But then again it may just be me .. is you son in max ,med or min security there and if you don't mind let me know how it goes for you ....
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Same way with us...first time, my skirt was too short...hell I'm 56 y/o, I didn't have a mini skirt on, then this last time, blouse too low cut. With my skirt, the guard came over and said, "do you have other clothes in your car"? NO...Then he goes,"I want you to know that while you are here today every man in this room will be watching you". Creeped me out. My son in minimum. He has two kids girl 4, boy 2. We were letting them play in play area while we sat in chairs about 3 or 4 rows down....guard comes over and tells me that I should keep them within arms reach while we are there. Then once we let boy sit on stage area so I could tie his shoes without bending over....Can't do that. Last time, we put our chairs against stage wall and then some right in front of them so we could sit in a square and let kids play in play area....NO, can't do that either....had to move chairs out from against wall. Why? Crazy, nit pickin. My son was in Toronto for several months and they were so nice to us. Let us bring in food. A couple of times I forgot my DL, they said they knew it was me. Once forgot power of attorney for kids paper....they let it slide. We could call them and get a message to Ben to call home, or to let him know it made it home safely...they always were willing to do it. I know some of it has to do with the number of inmates, but gees, it is minimum security...Last time in Lansing had drug sniffing dog check even the kids. Glad to know it just isn't us...they are unfriendly to all...lol barbarilla.