Change

[Dre's girl]

This is meant towards no one on this site it is just something after reading my little sisters face book page is working my nerves change is amazing thing in life but often the scariest however it is a personal choice someone can show you new thigs but that does not mean you will want to all the sudden live that and our so either we can love them uncondtionally or not but we can not make them change it is a hard lesson sometimes to accept but it is truth do i hope the love i have shown dre will make him a little less hard yes but do i expect it no i know what i will tolerate and will not
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[Dawgette]

You're right. I see many people who try to change others especially their partners. I've had people try to change me and all it does is make me mad when they do. I am who I am and I get a bit rebelious when people try to make me into what they want. Love people for who they are and not for who you want them to be. Now if that person is constantly complaining about something they want to change and then doing nothing to bring about that change.....yup, I'm gonna be on their case.

[Joshtaylor]

I totally agree with Dawgette, but some times conditions become such that one needs to change unconditionally. I think this is real meaning of life.

Second Chance Checking

[Dawgette]

People always change as they grow but it's still no one's place but their own to make those changes.

[alocsLADY]

Change has to come with in that person. You can't change someone it will only push them away. Samething with me turtle has been gang banging his whole life. So sometimes it scares me to think he is going to get out and do the same but he is now starting to understand that he needs to be there for his son and there is more to life than gang banging.